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June 28 海角七号－七封情书(Seven love letters from Cape No.7)引用 海角七号－七封情书 (Seven love letters from Cape No. 7) December 17 I wish to be fish (continue)Unfortunately the God is so mean, he only allows me to love you for seven seconds...
Let's stay in the same place as I want us to love each other for a whole life, just in fish's way... Please never turn back, as I am afraid you might forget me at the next second.
Please never swim away, as I am worried we will never meet again in the spacious sea.
Please never ever hesitate, as we might miss each other at the moment.
Please never... because I'd love to be together with you for a whole life...
I do hope that I am fish. As I could see you at every second, I then would not need to miss you.
I do hope that I am fish. I never need to hide my pain and distress as my tears will flow together with the water.
... I even don't recognize me any more. For loving you, it is not important any more. The important thing is that I am willing to be like this as I don't wanna lose you.
Do I have the chance to decide?
If so, I do hope, you are that group of water where I am in so that you can feel my grief and pain.
If so, I do hope, we can live our lives in fish's way, from meeting to loving and being that for a whole life...
可惜上帝那么吝啬，我只能爱你7秒...
那就让我们停留在原地, 用鱼的方式, 爱一辈子...
请不要回头, 因为我怕在你回头的下一刻, 你将把我忘记; 也请你不要游走, 因为我怕在你游走后, 我们再也不会相遇; 更请你不要犹豫, 因为我怕在你犹豫的那一瞬, 我们将彼此错过, 因为我想与你相爱一辈子.
我多希望, 我是一只鱼, 不需要思念, 因为可以每时每刻都看到你; 也不需要掩饰, 在宽广的海洋里我的泪水与海水交汇...
为了爱你, 我变成了谁, 那已经不重要了, 重要的是我愿意这样下去, 因为我不愿没有你.
我可以选择吗?
如果可以, 我多希望, 你是拥抱我的那团水, 这样, 你可以感觉到我的心痛...
如果可以, 我多希望, 我们可以用鱼的方式, 从相识到相爱再到相守, 就这样, 一辈子...
December 16 The guy I'm looking for...
May 21 never say goodbye!Never say Goodbye
My dear brethren
Though you might still be burying under the collased buildings
Please never give up
Please dont cry
My dear brethren
Though you might lost your brother, your sister, your son, your daughter, your husband, your wife or your parents...
Please be brave and strong
As we are here, 1,300,000,000 people are here.
And we will be here for you, support you forever...
Mamas, daddies, brothers, sisters, friends...
Please lift your heads to the sky
Cause we will never say goodbye
Never does we yield to the disaster
Never...
For we will be together, facing with the nature calamity together
For a person, the disaster is tremendous
While, for 1,300,000,000 people, it appears smaller and smaller
Let's hold together, heart by heart, hand in hand
To rebuild our new warm home together!
January 19 how to keep your love fresh & happy forever...Here is an article about how to keep your love fresh and happy forever. I'd like to share with all my friends here and wish all of you have a beautiful love...
start practising these...
1. Start each day with a kiss. 2. Wear your wedding ring at all times. 3. Date once a week. 4. Accept differences. 5. Be polite. 6. Be gentle. 7. Give gifts. 8. Smile often. 9. Touch. 10. Talk about dreams. 11. Select a song that can be "our song". 12. Give back rubs. 13. Laugh together. 14. Send a card for no reason. 15. Do what the other person wants before he or she asks. 16. Listen. 17. Encourage. 18. Do it his or her way. 19. Know his or her needs. 20. Fix the other person's breakfast. 21. Compliment twice a day. 22. Call during the day. 23. Slow down. 24. Hold hands. 25. Cuddle. 26. Ask for each other's opinion. 27. Show respect. 28. Welcome the other person home. 29. Look your best. 30. Wink at each other. 31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way. 32. Apologize. 33. Forgive. 34. Set up a romantic getaway. 35. Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?". 36. Be positive. 37. Be kind. 38. Be vulnerable. 39. Respond quickly to the other person's request. 40. Talk about your love. 41. Reminisce about your favorite times together. 42. Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy. 43. Send flowers every Valentine's day and anniversary. 44. Admit when wrong. 45. Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires. 46. Pray for each other daily. 47. Watch sunsets together. 48. Say "I love you" frequently. 49. End the day with a hug. 50. Seek outside help when needed. September 05 Do you know what the word FAMILY means?--from a friendI ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply. He said, "Please excuse me too; I wasn't watching for you." We were very polite, this stranger and I. We went on our way and we said goodbye. But at home a different story is told, How we treat our loved ones, young and old. Later that day, cooking the evening meal, My son stood beside me very still. When I turned, I nearly knocked him down. "Move out of the way," I said with a frown. He walked away, his little heart broken. I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken. While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said, "While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use, but the family you love, you seem to abuse. Go and look on the kitchen floor, You'll find some flowers there by the door. Those are the flowers he brought for you. He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue. He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes." By this time, I felt very small, And now my tears began to fall. I quietly went and knelt by his bed; "Wake up, little one, wake up," I said. "Are these the flowers you picked for me?" He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree. I picked 'em because they're pretty like you. I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue." I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today; I shouldn't have yelled at you that way." He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay. I love you anyway." I said, "Son, I love you too, and I do like the flowers, especially the blue " FAMILY Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't you think? So what is behind the story? Do you know what the word FAMILY means? FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU This poem has touched me a lot and taught me lots of things. Family is a union that most of the people would like to have but unfortunatly many people fail to keep it sweet and warm. Please stop hurting your family members after reading it as they are only the people who care you in the world.
I cant help to think about the wrong things I did to my parents before. As sometimes I was bad-tempered, I have never stopped to hurt them on my growing way. Lucky me that they are generous to me. I'm glad I have such nice parents and I'm also glad that I have the chance to know it's wrong to treat my family members like that.
Simple story but tells me a marvellous life... Thank you my dear friend! I think I will not make the same mistake now when I'm a child, and will not make the same mistake too in the future when I become a mom! April 02 爱的四个阶段(four steps of love)有位心理学家曾写道，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：一,共存(codependent)二,反依赖(counter dependent)三,独立(independent),四,共生(interdependent)阶段之间转换所需的时间不一定，因人而易。
Once a psychologist said that a mature love must experience four steps. there are codependent, counter dependent, independent and interdependent. Different people take different time to experience them. 第一个阶段：共存。这是热恋时期，情人不论何时何地总希望能腻在一起。第二个阶段：反依赖。等到情感稳定后，至少会有一方想要有多一点自己的时间作自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。第三个阶段：独立。这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。第四个阶段：共生。这时新的相处之道已经成形，你（妳）的他（她）已经成为你(妳）最亲的人。你们在一起相互扶持、一起开创属于你们自己的人生。你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。但是，大部分的人都通不过第二或第三阶段，而选择分手一途，这是非常可惜的。很多事只要好好沟通都会没事的，不要耍个性，不要想太多要互相信任，这样第二、三阶段的时间就会缩短。 The first step is codependent. Lovers would like to be together at any time any place. The second step is counter dependent. This is a stable step. one of them would like to do what he'd like to do sometimes and the other would feel being treated indifferently. The third step is independent. both of the lovers would like to have their own time in this step. The fourth one is interdependent. lovers think each other is their most trusty person. you support each other and create a life belongs to you and him/her. However, most of them depart on the way to the fourth step. it's really sad but if lovers can tolerate and believe in each other, they would get the love fruit. 和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的，不要轻言放弃。两人相聚是因为有缘，相知是因为有心，真的得好好珍惜这福份莫说分手不是无由，希望看到上述的四个阶段，真能给大家一些启示与领悟并惜缘。 I hope you can get something meaningful from the article. it's uneasy for you to meet your lover and fall in love with him/her. therefore, you should measure your love as a gift from the god. 我们会逐渐变成我们所爱的人。妳和他本来没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也是南辕北辙，一旦爱上了，年深日久，妳会惊讶妳的眼睛有点像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有点像妳的微笑。你们走路的步伐也有点相似，说话的语气也愈来愈相像。他的脖子上有一颗痣，一天，妳发现自己脖子上也多了一颗痣，原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。妳本来喜欢脚踏实地的人，而他一向比较轻佻，但你们爱上了，他竟会不知不觉变成一个老实人，这个改变，连他自己也不曾察觉。他本来喜欢活泼的女孩子，却爱上了拘谨的妳，这些日子，妳竟愈来愈活泼，妳差点认不出自己。我们会逐渐变成对方理想中的人，这种改变，绝对不是刻意的。两个人愈爱得长久，气质也愈来愈相近，妳曾经以为他不是妳梦寐以求的那种类型，然而，有一天，妳惊讶地发现，他已经变成妳喜欢的那种类型，妳不必再到处寻觅，他就是妳要找的人。 We'll become similar to the one we love, not only the appearance but internal characters. We might have no commons before and our characters are totally different. However, after staying together for a period, I may find your eyes are similar to mine and you may find my smiles are similar to yours, as well as my walking styles and your speaking tone. We'll become the one each other loves as well. You were actually a guy has your feet on the ground and I were a skittish girl. But I changed myself to be the same as you without notice. I might like a lively guy but actually I fell in love with you- a bit strict guy. And you become quite lively even you dont know. Finally, we become the one each other loves. 深深爱着一个人的时候，妳原来真的会一点一点的失去自己，为甚么妳还会觉得快乐呢？大概是因为妳在失去的当儿，也是赚了，妳把他的气质和他的微笑都赚回来..幸福很单纯...所以要很单纯的人才容易获得..... I've lost myself bit by bit after falling in love with you day after day but I still feel happy. Why? For I've gained what you have at the same time. Happiness is simple and only the person with pure mind to love can get what he'd like to have... |
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