ATTN: all the girls

Dears,

You should have the ability to survive by yourself instead of lying on your lovers.

Never think that degree is nothing. Not all the talents have high degrees, but without degrees it is impossible to catch opportunities.

Gorgeous and pretty appearance cannot last forever, but minds, spirits, thoughts and knowledge do. They are of paramount importance. Never make a fuss about nothing.

Girls, I’d like you to believe in those tired words like warmness, happiness, trust, dignity and will. Never to be dismayed, empty and confused. Never hurt yourself and others.

Learn to control your feelings. Not every guy fits you. Don’t be attracted by the simulated cool and special. Those are only the excuses to the guys who have nothing to do. The real cool only exists in the inner hearts.

Girls, you should have strong wills and indelible faiths. Say that I love the world not only when you are in the ivory tower but also when you know how dirty, evil and cruel it is outside.

Girls, learn to love yourselves and live a happy life. Never complain about the flying time but treasure it as it is so short.

You may have a rest sometimes but never look around. Choose a way for yourself and never turn back. Ask yourself what you are doing when you are confused. Cry when you feel sad and wronged. Wash your face and smile to yourself afterwards.

Set a target for yourself and Make plans for it. Remember to look at the sky as well as the road.

Whenever others ask you how many times you have been in love, just tell them only twice. Once is that he loves you but you don’t love him and the other one is in contrary.

Sweet love is only in the next time. Never give the chance to let a guy hurt you twice. Never believe in the promise made in the bed. Don’t see virgins as too serious but keep your heart a “virgin”.

Never feel ashamed because of your desires and never ever tolerate men’s insults. Believe me, girls, there are lots of men in the world, even more than frogs.

Don’t say the word “love” too hasty except the guy is the one you love very much and he loves you in the same way.

Never after the man who is looking for a girl that is similar to his ex-girlfriend, his mother or his sister.

Never fall into love with loafers, old or pure men.

Never be together with a bad man.

Never be moved when a man flirts with you.

Never be together with a man who never introduces you to his friends.

Never contact with the man actively if he doesn’t contact with you any more.

Never trust the person who plays tricks on love affairs.

Never curse the man when departing.

Never tear photos and dairies, burn letters because of separation, which only happens in boring love soap operas.

Never be the woman carrying a luggage slipping from one boyfriend’s home to another at night.

Ask the man to call your name if he only calls you “baby”.

Believe in love and trust that there is still a good and unmarried man looking for you.

Don’t say no man is good.

Love material comforts in an appropriate way and always remember that inner heart is the most important.

Don’t look down upon laboring peoples.

Don’t doubt friendship only after being betrayed by your friends.

Forgive warbs.

Be happy, be active, be strong, be kind and sometimes be tough.

The last but not least forgive all the people in the world, including yourself.

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